Lilith in Libra
Lilith in Libra
Symbolizes difficulties in all forms of cooperation and association; Egoism; Rejection of social norms; Attractiveness; Frustrations; Unfulfilled wishes; Snobbery; Kidney diseases; Widowhood.
As the Libra sign in the basic explanation symbolizes harmony, Lilith here indicates the problems of establishing it. A person has problems in establishing relationships, first because of his behavior, and then also the honesty that any relationship, whether emotional or business, requires.
A person must learn to balance between his personality and character and others with whom he forms a relationship. Establishing a partnership is very important, but the lessons to be learned are patience, conciliation, balance and compromise.
Because of the natus overwhelming need to build relationships and maintain them, they will often choose the direction of simply letting their partners decide everything. But precisely because of this surrender, a person cannot define himself and at the same time, although he is aware of it, he cannot live without those others.
He often feels that others are usurping his privacy, but at the same time there is a blockage to organize and change relationships within a relationship or business association. The lack of self-confidence is very pronounced and because of this the person often feels enormous pressure and dissatisfaction that causes mental suffering.
On the other hand, in order to protect himself, natus will often enter into conflicts that can be violent, impulsive and expressed at the wrong moment. Simply, there is no free will here – others will somehow always be stronger and have stronger arguments in any conflict or discussion.
A person must learn to withstand the attacks because, as stated, he cannot win. And if in some situations he is right and the other side knows it, natus will not be allowed to come out of the conflict as a winner.
Further, natus must learn self-reliance and simply accept others as they are. There are life chapters that this natus must overcome in order to learn who he is and how to manifest himself towards the environment. He must learn to give without interest, to accept the desires of others or to be himself the object of desire and to put aside his own aspirations.
Often Lilith placed here brings pathological indecision. Simply, a person cannot make any decision. In order to avoid this, a person must clearly define himself, his demands, desires, opinions – at the cost of creating very awkward situations.
Mostly, all decisions made by natus are on an unconscious level and the person is unable to explain to others why he made that particular decision. Therefore, he has no sense of patience or obligation to wait. Lilith here instructs the person to seek salvation in indifference and callousness. The danger arises right here if this practice of “salvation” takes root and becomes part of the character.
The lessons that must be learned are that one must fit one’s ego in one’s relationships with others. In order to express himself, he must learn to compromise. He must learn not to plan too much and live in the present moment. Calculations lead to problems.
In past lives, the soul most likely used social connections for its own selfish needs. The person was most likely very unfair in relation to others. Another possibility is that the soul suffered because of injustice and as a result the present person carries those traumas in his subconscious and they are expressed through the problems of social relations.
Most likely, there is a karmic debt of justice or injustice that forces this person to change.