Lilith in Virgo

Symbolizes curiosity, sexual restraint, marginality, heavy obligations, emotional and psychological instability, health problems (especially the stomach), hygiene, selectiveness, and excessive analysis.

This person struggles with building a sense of self due to a nearly constant, often unconscious tendency to compare and adjust to others. To protect themselves, they usually adopt a cold attitude and give off an impression of egoism.

Everyday life and its imposed rhythm are difficult to handle. There is a constant attempt to channel emotions, calm inner restlessness, and find the security that is deeply desired. When forced to make a choice, insecurity and strong anxiety arise.

There is a desire to make decisions based on logic and facts, yet circumstances often push toward relying on intuition and external factors (fate). The choices made are often painful because the path taken is not the one desired, but rather the most logical one.

Throughout life, there is a recurring lesson that must be learned — to accept and integrate change. If this does not happen, or if change is persistently resisted, accumulated dissatisfaction may manifest as illness.

A sense of inferiority, distrust of everything and everyone, consistent honesty, and above-average logic can easily lead to self-blame. Irrational fears, hypochondria, various phobias, disgusts (for example, toward food), the paradox of being ordinary yet special, and sometimes pathological neatness — all are expressions of this Lilith.

The solution lies in the unconscious. The lessons that must be mastered involve taking control over instincts the moment they surface into consciousness, as well as using intuition to balance and restrain rational thought.

This can reduce the persistent feeling of fear. The unconscious and conscious are in constant daily conflict, often resulting in the rejection of intuition because reason refuses to accept it.

In past lives, there were likely circumstances where trust was repeatedly betrayed. Doubt toward everything and everyone became a part of the soul’s structure, developing a strong self-defense mechanism.

There is also a possibility that a deeply painful and traumatic experience of betrayal occurred. In the present life, there is a feeling that danger is always near — especially regarding trust in others. Yet the root of the problem remains in the unconscious. The life lesson that must be learned is to rediscover and rebuild trust.